​Sorry, I really have to apologize
 
Yes, yes, yes … In my last blog article I started out with a difficult topic but rather than introducing it gently and easily I started out with the most difficult aspect for many. What happened is this.
 
Stress has a lot to do with what we eat.
 
This is true both ways. Stress causes you to eat the wrong food, e.g. the stress hormone cortisol makes us crave fat and sugar. On the other hand bad nutrition makes us more susceptible to stress. If we have 20 or 30 pounds too many we don’t feel quite as well, we are not as mobile, we will even get sick more often.
 
Therefore, for the last couple of years Judy and I have been studying and experimenting with different ways of eating. We actually found 4 different systems which helped us feel great, have energy, keep our weight in line and in general supported good health. More about all of them will be in another article soon.
 
The easiest and most adaptable of those systems seems to be intermittent fasting. That’s why I was so excited when I read Dr. Jason Fung’s book. To repeat:
Jason Fung, MD. He wrote it with a well known health author and blogger, Jimmy Moore:
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“The Complete Guide to Fasting”
 
Now the reason I want apologize is Dr. Fung’s book is probably not the easiest way to start out with. You have to really be seriously committed to dive into his research and recommendations.
That’s why I want apologize to you. I’m sorry we didn’t start out with an easier recommendation.
 
Why is eating right so difficult?
Why is keeping our weight down so difficult?
Why has everything we’ve tried not worked?
 
Because we have been misinformed about nutrition. We have been misinformed about how our body really works.
 
Now here are the answers in a short highly concentrated 36-minute video presentation. Here is a great way to start learning about what’s wrong with our current nutrition quickly but thoroughly. Here is a great way to learn how our body really functions:
 
Dr. Jason Fung - 'Therapeutic Fasting - Solving the Two-Compartment Problem'

Watch this video and you will start rethinking how you eat. I’m not exaggerating. Dr. Fung has been practicing both in the United States and in Canada. He really knows what he’s talking about. And he explains it in very clear easy to understand terms.
 
Remember what bad nutrition and bad eating habits can do to you! You feel bad, you feel guilty, and you feel older than you are. Also remember a long list of serious illnesses which are the result of metabolic disease, of bad eating habits.

• heart disease and stroke
• Alzheimer’s
• high cholesterol and blood pressure
• abdominal obesity
• polycystic ovaries
• gout and arteriosclerosis
• stomach reflux and sleep apnea
• diabetes type 2 and … dreaded cancer

 
This is not fear mongering. This is real. If many of you readers might already have some of these symptoms, hopefully just starting. Take action and get Dr. Fung’s book now. Follow his advice and in a short time you’ll have more energy and feel better. And then with a little more time your health will improve.
 
Judy and I know from our own experience, the better way to eat makes a huge difference in our lives.
 
Live better and live longer!

Warm regards, 
 Fred & Judy
 
Fred George Sauer, MS, MS Eng, Chief Stress Coach, Performance & Productivity Specialist
Judith Lynch-Sauer, PhD, RN, Scientific Advisor, Clinical Professor of Psychiatric Mental Health Nursing

Yesterday a friend posted a photo of 5 buddies having breakfast at a famous local hangout. From the research we have done in the past year on stress and nutrition we couldn’t let go of this picture. Why? Because at least 3 of the people in the picture look like they will shorten their lives. If they don’t do something drastic, their lives will be cut short by up to a dozen years. And the last few years of their lives will not be healthy. Those “golden years” will most likely be unhappy, perhaps miserable. How can we say this?
 
We are reading a book by a famous medical doctor. The book is about a healthy lifestyle which doesn’t cost you anything. It would probably even save you money. If the 3 buddies in picture don’t do something like this doctor suggests, they’ll be in trouble. He has a list of health problems which go together with metabolic disease. Here is the list:

• heart disease and stroke
• Alzheimer’s
• high cholesterol and blood pressure
• abdominal obesity
• polycystic ovaries
• gout and arteriosclerosis
• stomach reflux and sleep apnea
• diabetes type 2 and … dreaded cancer

 
Is this alarmist or exaggerated? Not really. There is plenty of research and he explains most of it in the book.
 
What to do? We learned about this free and easily available tool to improve health from a leading U of M cancer specialist. He uses the technique with his entire research team. The technique is called intermittent fasting. It is easy and safe to start with it. There is a lot of good information available. But now we are reading this outstanding book about the subject. It’s written by the now famous Dr. Jason Fung, MD. He wrote it together with an also well known health author and blogger, Jimmy Moore:
 
“The Complete Guide to Fasting”

​The holidays are coming … exciting fun and joy!
Yet why can this also be one of the most stressful times of the year for many? 
Because of high expectations and family.

Stress can suddenly appear out of nowhere.
​Something important doesn't work the way you have planned. Somebody unpleasant shows up suddenly. Or worse nothing happens because you are all alone.We'll talk about a few of these stresses to get you well prepared.

Good stress, bad stress
Don’t forget the holidays are a wonderful experience for most, especially if there are kids around. There is excitement, anticipation and preparation.  Even if there are some big stresses with the holidays, much of the time it can be just a great experience. But one single bad thing can ruin it for you. So what is this thing with good stress - bad stress?

Hans Selye, the Austrian-Canadian genius, defined and researched stress. He talked about eustress and distress.  Everybody knows distress. It makes you feel bad, unhappy, scared or angry. A lot of distress will even make you sick.  Eustress is just the opposite. "Eu" comes from Greek and means good. So eustress means good stress.  With good stress you feel excited, challenged, motivated and fulfilled.  Clearly for the holidays you want the good stress and not the bad.
 
Science tells us old survival brain causes all stress
You want the good stress, excitement, good feelings and fun with family and friends.  It's important to know that bad stress comes from your old brain. The problem is that you don't have direct control over that. That part of your brain sits below your thinking brain. It does pretty much what it wants. Its function is to keep you safe. But it was created for very different circumstances.

Your old brain was created for you to survive as a hunter and gatherer 100,000s of years ago. Our brain hasn’t changed much since. It isn’t always working well in modern life. But it runs your feelings and your automatic reactions in your life anyway.

Your old brain and your holidays
To keep you safe the old brain "thinks" that any change is dangerous. It actually doesn't think. It make you feel uncomfortable if something changes which you are used to,
 
It is subconscious without logic.
The nature of its programs say, "you have survived thus far, therefore we don't want to change a thing." That is the main reason even the unfortunate things you do in your life are difficult to change. That's true for example for too much eating, drinking, smoking, etc. and worse!
 
The second thing your old brain does, it keeps score of all the bad things which ever happened to you. Your dad or teacher criticized you, somebody hit you, treated you badly, anything like that. Here are two examples how this works.
 
Say your mom made Christmas perfect.
Everything was beautiful and every detail was perfection, from Christmas tree to dinner table, from gifts prepared to food and drink.  Perhaps she didn't go to work and had the time to make it perfect. Perhaps it wasn’t perfect but you remember it as such. But now you are a working mom already stretched to the limit.

Can you relax and have a simpler Christmas?
Can you now change, make dinner easy, use paper plates and buy the ham or turkey cooked? Or make a healthy easy veggie meal? You see it’s not easy to break old traditions. And if you do some others may complain.  It would be logical to make it easy, yet your old brain has no logic. It just wants you to do things the same way your family always has done.
 
Or something worse… on holidays your family was not a happy place.  There was tension, silence or sharp words, too much alcohol and verbal fights. Some may even have experienced violence. Unfortunately your old brain thinks that is okay.  You did survive and therefore all that happened is important to help you live another day. Change is not natural or easy. You may need help from people who are well qualified.

What do you want? 
This is important. Take inventory. Write it down.  What do you want? What worked well, what did you like in past holidays? What else would feel good and make it fun for you and yours? To get control over old brain impulses it is important you start with what you want, what feels good! The old brain works with feelings, not with logic.

Why is it a good thing to write it down?
Again, it is your old brain. As you get your paper or tablet - hey, not ancient stone tablet - your old brain gets activated and starts to pay attention. Actually, the stone tablet was only half a joke; to carve it into stone really would get your old brain fully involved. Therefore, write down what you like.

Write down some features of the happy past. That will give both your thinking brain and your old brain a pleasant focus. Your emotions will be positive and strong.
 

Try something different
Now think of things you don't want, past events on holidays which led to pain. Next think of ways to plan your holidays which will make sure there is no pain.  Write down specific ways for each problem to not occur. Some examples:

• get festive paper plates to make the cleanup easy
• order parts of a holiday meal ready and prepared
• serve beer and wine and not the whiskey, have some sparkling water for the thirst, this way your guests won't get rowdy
• prepare ideas for small talk (F.O.R.D. = Family, Occupation, Recreation and Dreams) and stay away from politics or be ready to calm the arguments
• set people's expectations in advance and let them know just why you make a change. This can be critical to avoid people being surprised and complaining … they have on old brain too.

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Your old brain loves to see it crossed out
Now cross off each item you don’t want off the list. This communicates better to your subconscious. Next read out loud all the good things. Again your old brain hears it and will change more easily.
 
Old wisdom and new
 Why is your old brain so powerful? Why does it make you do things you don't really want? Why are you not even aware of it?

• Because it is your brain's survival function, you wouldn't live without it.
• Because it is suspicious of each change, it doesn't want you to try something new.
• Because it is deep down below your conscious mind, your thinking cannot reach it.

 
"If you do what you always did, you'll get what you always got!"
How does it stop you from trying something new? It will cause you stress! And stress will pull a lot of blood quite fast and automatically from your new brain where all your thinking happens. Your thinking brain has no more oxygen, you feel fogged up, anxious and not clear. Actually, we wrote a report for you with all the dangers caused by your old brain and stress, click here and get your free copy.
 

Easy way to manage old brain stress
Your brain is fogged up, no clear thinking, procrastination, indecision.
That is what happens without oxygen in your "new" brain, the only place where you have logic and can think. What can you do? How do you get oxygen and blood where you now need it most?
 
There is a simple answer your old brain likes. MOVE! Take a brisk walk, go to the gym, do your favorite workout! Get breathing deeply, work up some sweat. Now your blood flows full of oxygen.

Your thinking brain works well again. Clarity, energy and focus have returned. Now you can make new decisions and take new actions with success. This is the best time to make new plans, be well prepared and now create your holidays to be refreshing, full of fun. Leave out the drudgery, complexities and stress. KISS, Keep It Simple Smart one.
 
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And make your holidays simple, easy, fun. 
Create new memories in your old brain to be proud of!

Warm regards,                    Fred & Judy

Fred George Sauer, MS, MS Eng, Chief Stress Coach, Performance & Productivity Specialist
Judith Lynch-Sauer, PhD, RN, Scientific Advisor, Clinical Professor of Psychiatric Mental Health Nursing ret.

Hello,   What is the STRESS level when and where you are working?
              HELP IS ON THE WAY! ​

We have just joined the Ann Arbor Ypsilanti Chamber of Commerce, a great meeting place for both business and community organizations.
 
The Chamber is helping us get the word out about the potential of "Real-Time Stress Management". On Tuesday, October 30, from 9 AM to 11 AM, we are holding our first workshop there. They reserved their beautiful Board-Room for us. We have room for 20 people. Anyone can attend whether they are a Chamber member or not.
​> Sign up now: Short Intensive Workshop "Real-Time Stress Management"
 
The twelve major dangers of stress impact everyone, but especially working people. Of those twelve, 6 have an immediate impact and sabotage performance. The other six affect us more slowly but endanger our health. Here is a brief overview:

A recent report singles out tension head and back aches, including migraines, as the number one reason workers call in sick. Nationwide, companies and other organizations lose billions of dollars each year due to this problem alone. Our work has frequently proven to allow people to reduce or eliminate this problem.

It will provide a firsthand experience with SciStress "Real-Time Stress Management". Why do we call it real-time? Because the stress reduction commonly takes effect in minutes, often even in 20 or 30 seconds.
 
We have only 20 spots available, reserve your seat now:
​> Short Intensive Workshop "Real-Time Stress Management"

When: Tuesday, October 30, 9:00am-11:00am
Where: A2Y Chamber, 2010 Hogback Rd. Suite 4 Ann Arbor, MI 48105
Cost: Normally $25.00, yours $7.00

Wishing you an exciting and stress free week.

Warms regards, Fred & Judy

Fred George Sauer, MS, MS Eng, Chief Stress Coach, Performance & Productivity Specialist
Judith Lynch-Sauer, PhD, RN, Scientific Advisor, Clinical Professor of Psychiatric Mental Health Nursing ret.